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PreparingFatherhood (Fatherform) — AI Parenting Platform

Full-stack AI companion that helps fathers track relationship health, journal, and get personalized parenting guidance.

Category

AI Parenting Platform

Timeline

Jun 2025 – Present

Stack

15 core technologies

Preview of PreparingFatherhood (Fatherform) — AI Parenting Platform

Selected stack

React 18
Vite
TypeScript
Tailwind CSS

Highlights

Project snapshot

  • Spans 111 database tables, ~337 API endpoints, and ~56 client pages in one TypeScript monorepo.
  • Provider-agnostic LLM client over OpenAI + Ragie RAG, with live Agora video and ElevenLabs voice onboarding.
  • Defense-in-depth security: CSRF, four-tier rate limiting, bcrypt, PG-backed sessions, and a dedicated pentest/ZAP test suite.

Overview

A relationship-aware support system for fatherhood

PreparingFatherhood (Fatherform) is a TypeScript monorepo — React + Vite client, Express API, shared Drizzle schema — that helps fathers build and maintain relationships with their partner, children, and support network.

It combines a dynamic relationship-health scoring engine, AI-generated guidance and reminders, mood and journal tracking, and curated resources behind a single dashboard, exposing roughly 337 API endpoints over a 111-table schema.

Problem

Parenting support is broad, generic, and emotionally shallow

  • Fathers lack structured, personalized support for the emotional and relational side of parenting, not just logistics.
  • Relationship and emotional health is hard to quantify or track, so drift goes unnoticed until it is a problem.
  • Generic content is not tailored to a father's specific family stage, mood, or history.
  • Journaling, mood, and milestone data sit in silos with no engine turning them into action.

Solution

An AI-guided ecosystem grounded in the user's own history

  • Unified relationship-health engine plus a separate "relationship circles" subsystem that models the father's support network.
  • Retrieval-augmented "Terroir" assistant grounds guidance in journal entries and an expert knowledge base via Ragie.
  • Adaptive timeline, reminders, and milestone tracking connect insight to accountability.

Core Features

Systems built around reflection, guidance, and support

Relationship Health System

  • Dynamic relationship-health scoring
  • Relationship-circles network modeling with WebSocket reminders
  • Visual analytics over interactions and history

AI Assistant — Terroir

  • GPT-4o conversational advisor
  • RAG semantic search via Ragie over journals and expert content
  • Habit, timeline, and practice generation

Journaling, Mood & Patterns

  • Rich-text journaling via TipTap editor
  • AI mood analysis and mood-pattern detection
  • Mood check-ins and entries over time

Video, Voice & Content

  • Live interview rooms with Agora RTC video and token auth
  • Video-note transcription via OpenAI Whisper and voice onboarding via ElevenLabs
  • RSS ingestion + AI summarization and SendGrid newsletters

Architecture

Web client, layered AI client, and PostgreSQL

React 18 + Vite client (~56 pages) → Express API (~337 endpoints) → layered AI client (pluggable provider adapter) → OpenAI (GPT-4o / Whisper) + Ragie + ElevenLabs + Agora → PostgreSQL (Drizzle ORM, 111 tables)
  • A shared shared/schema.ts keeps client and server types in sync.
  • An LLMProvider interface is selected from an env var, with an AI call-tracker and per-call performance instrumentation.

Engineering Highlights

Security, performance, and AI efficiency as core requirements

Security

  • CSRF protection with route exceptions
  • Four tiered rate limiters (auth, API, AI, password-reset)
  • bcrypt hashing, CORS whitelist, and a pentest/ZAP test suite

Sessions & Reliability

  • PostgreSQL-backed sessions (connect-pg-simple) with memorystore fallback
  • Custom DB performance and connection-pool managers
  • Sentry (node + profiling + React) and Pino structured logging

AI Architecture

  • Pluggable multi-provider LLM abstraction (OpenAI live; Anthropic/Gemini scaffolded)
  • Ragie RAG semantic search over user data
  • Startup-automation/scheduler layer for timelines and reminders

Impact

A long-term growth system, not a content library

  • Improves family relationships through contextual guidance grounded in user history rather than generic advice.
  • Turns journaling, recommendations, and reminders into a durable growth loop.
  • Honest growth seams: the live AI/voice/video stack is OpenAI + Ragie + Agora + ElevenLabs; Anthropic Claude and Mux are not integrated (their SDKs are installed but unused).